Two hundred and thirty-four years ago, Congress adopted the Declaration of Independence which declares us a “free” nation and sets the bar high for those of us who follow along behind them. Many of us celebrate the 4th of July with cook-outs, fireworks and outdoor fun, but forget to teach our children why we celebrate this day. The Declaration of Independence was signed and adopted by Congress to inform Britain that the British colonies in America were declaring their independence and to explain, as best they could , why this was necessary.
While it is certainly important to enjoy this day and celebrate it in the way most fitting for you it is also a time to share with our children the history of our young nation and relate the importance of this day in a way they can understand. In our family the 4th of July calls for a full day of activities, family fun, cookouts, games, firefly catching and then to top it all off fireworks. This has been a tradition since I was a small girl, and like my family before me, I will be relating to my girls today the events leading up to and following the signing of the Declaration.
I like to pull out all the stops on the 4th, so we start the day with pancakes smothered in fresh whipped cream, strawberries, and blueberries that the girls and I make together. While we cook we chat about the day, the festivities that will take place {they now it all so well by now}, and the reason we celebrate this day. We spend time reading books like “The Story of America’s Birthday”, “Happy 4th of July, Jenny Sweeny”, and {our personal favorite} “We the Kids” before bed. My husband, a big believer in starting them early, reads our eldest the Declaration of Independence every year and plans to have her memorize it for next year.
Because my girls enjoy baking and creating delicious meals and snacks for friends, we are always sure to make a red, white, and blue something yummy for our family picnic. This year we’re making a “Yankee Doodle Popcorn Cake” to share with our loved ones. While making these delicious snacks, our family also takes time to talk about what we love about this country, our lives, and the people in it. Then Jon and I take some time to talk about what life is said to be like in other countries, the different cultures, and how each culture shapes the quilt of our lives. We spend most if not all the day with loved ones enjoying the freedom so many have fought for and remembering how and why we are a free nation.
Do you have a special way to celebrate our nation’s independence with your loved one?
Whatever you do and whomever you spend the day with, I hope you enjoy the day and remember how this nation became the land of the free.
Amanda Henson is Parentella’s Community Manager and owner of High Impact Mom, a socially aware mom-blog. As Chief Executive Mom at High Impact Mom, Amanda encounters all sorts of madness while she goes to bat for teachers as local PTSO secretary, corrals two busy daughters, manages a successful social media marketing company, and occasionally even finding time for a date with her husband. Sometimes she even lives to blog about it. Amanda is a social media addict, a compulsive volunteer, and devoted mama…she might also a little bit crazy.








