Posts Tagged ‘Volunteering’

Part 7: Volunteerism and Building Self-Esteem

Monday, October 11th, 2010

This is part of a series of posts regarding building student confidence. Click on the links to read Part 1Part 2Part 3,Part 4Part 5 and part 6.

When I began my middle school Leadership program in 2002, I did not have a community service or volunteerism  component. I thought to myself that my students–the majority of whom are underprivileged–ought be the recipient of volunteerism and not vice versa. I was wrong.

Now in it’s ninth year, my program requires that my students perform a minimum of twenty volunteer/community service hours per school year. Students must document their service. They cannot participate in many of our “exciting” trips (e.g. to Washington, D.C.) without completing their hours. What changed my mind?

Back in 2002, my leadership class implement three holiday drives. October was clothing. November was food. December was toys. Prior to my spearheading these programs, the school had only done a food drive. At the end of each drive, we’d take the items to local homeless shelters.

Being that I involve students in every aspect of all our activities, kids came along to transport the items. What I found out was somewhat of a surprise to me. I figured that taking my students spirits would be darkened or hampered, reminding them of their lives at home. Quite the opposite was true.

I have found that the sense of accomplishment achieved through giving helps improve students’ self-confidence and esteem, and drives the kids to want to do more for others. This has translated into (though I cannot quantify this) a drive to achieve better grades in high school, taking AP classes, more volunteerism, a desire to work for government and/or non-profits, and to receive a college education. Needless to say, the holiday drives are now a permanent part of the program.

When asked what they want to do when they grow up, most of the kids in my history classes speak about what I’d expect them to say: veternarian, doctor, teacher. All noble fields. But my leadership students, who run the three holiday drives, tell me their aspirations include running for elected office, opening a homeless shelter, working for non-profits (though they’re unfamiliar with the term so I’m paraphrasing), and more.

Doing good for others makes a person feel better about themselves, and for disadvantaged kids, I can say with deep

certainty that they benefit from it exponentially compared with more advanted peers. Perhaps it is their desire to make change for their families and themselves. Perhaps seeing others who are in more need than they offers some interesting perspective about life. Whatever the case, it’s a win-win situation.

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Mr. Franklin is a teacher for the Los Angeles Unified School District. He

is an eleven year veteran and has won District and County Teacher of the Year awards. He was also a recipient of the prestigious Bank of America Community Hero award. Before teaching, he spent five years at Learning Forum, which runs summer camps designed to increase student academic potential. It is a world-wide program.

Connecting the home and school for our kids’ success

Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

One of the things I have struggled with in relation to parenting has been my daughters’ education.  While I am aware of my general lack of time as a work at home mom, and sometimes, though it pains me to admit it, my patience is not always what I think it should be, I have struggled with the question of whether I should be teaching my daughter at home rather than sending her to school every day.

However, as I learned early on, I didn’t have to just send her out the door in the morning and pick her up again in the afternoon. In fact, our school encouraged my volunteering and I watched my daughter flourish as her teacher, school administrators and I worked together to provide a comprehensive learning environment that spanned from the living room to the classroom and back again.  I found that through my volunteering I was able to touch many children’s lives who did not have the same familial structure or level of parental involvement my daughter has, I was able to spend 3 hours a week reading with children who touched my heart and taught me the importance of parental outreach in schools.  When you volunteer your time, you are not only supporting the teachers, you are helping to enrich the students lives.

As parents we have the unique ability to effect our children’s learning both inside and outside of the classroom. When parents support their children’s schools, classrooms, and parent-teacher organizations by donating time, services, or products they show their children they believe in their education and they make it easier for their schools to offer more learning opportunities for the students.  Parents can also offer support by taking an active part in their child’s education by studying with the child, challenging their knowledge at home, and holding their child accountable for their responsibilities.  When parents take the time to instill values like respect, self-reliance, responsibility, and manners in their child, parents are equipping their children with the tools necessary to have a successful education.

Communication between educators and parents is of utmost importance also.  When the lines of communication are open, parents and teachers can more readily and successfully tackle discipline, learning, or social issues and receive support.  Parents can now stay connected to educators and administrators through a variety of options including email, classroom blogs, the 1-call system, online classroom tools, social networking, and good old fashioned telephone and snail mail.  Thanks to technology many schools can hold real-time parent-teacher conferences using video conferencing tools, parents can ask homework questions and get an immediate response from other classroom parents or the teacher, and working parents can stay informed by reading their teacher’s classroom blog.  This increased availability can and should translate into better parent-teacher communication and a greater learning experience for the student.

When parents and teachers work together it is obvious that the student benefits, whether you choose to volunteer your time, services, or you just support quietly at home remember that you are just as responsible (and more too) for your child’s education and future.  It is up to you to show your child that you think education is important, that you support your child’s teacher and the effort he or she puts forth, and to instill the morals and values that will enable them to grow into contributing and valuable members of society.

On to Middle School!

Friday, June 12th, 2009

My 10 year old (soon to be 11 year old) is now a 6th Grader. I am so proud of him and yet I can’t help feel sad. He is my little one! He is almost as tall as me and I am sure he will surpass me in height pretty soon. I have often imagined myself needing a stool to step up and talk to him as he is older. Still, he is my baby. He is such a wonderful child.  He finished 5th grade with a bang. Yesterday, they had their class picnic which is a great way to end the school year. I volunteered to help out at the class picnic.. I signed up for bringing chilled water for the children. The entire organization was done by email. The organizer had to send out reminders to ensure that everyone knew their stations and what they were bringing.

At the picnic, the kids played games in rotation and had 12 minutes for each game. I was the referee and score keeper for throwball. We had 8 groups and towards the end I empathized with the referees at games. The kids had a great time. Other games that they played were: Sponge pass, Broom soccer, Hula Hoop, Grass-ski, Sack races, Water balloon toss, and Frisbee relay.

I am very grateful to have had the opportunity to volunteer at school, go on field trips, and school events for our children. Participation truly provides a window into the children’s world and what they are into these days. There were 130 students at the park and 20 parent volunteers (less than 10% of the parent population). For the parents that were unable to make it, it would have been great to provide a report of the activities, some photos, and other funny things that happened at the picnic. The event organization would have been a lot smoother with online signups.

Next year, parents can use Parentella to:

1.) Organize online signups for events.

2.) Send automated confirmations and reminders to volunteers who have offered to help.

3.) Post event news, pictures, tid bits, etc. in one place so that parents who are unable to attend can still participate.

As the children move on the middle school, parent volunteering opportunities are fewer. Parentella can help connect parents in middle school so that we can still be involved and learn from each other.

I still can’t believe that I am the parent to a middle school child now. I look forward to all the adventures and fun that is ahead of us. It is summer break now and time for fun and relaxation. Happy Friday!

What did your children do for their last day of school? I would love to hear more ideas for making the day special for the kids.

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